I am stressed
I am upended
I am uncomfortable, my underwear doesn’t even feel quite right, I keep hitching it to one side or the other “fuck you other side, this one is mine”. Well, these particular ones are also going on 20 years old as my laundry has become a bit stacked with packing, so to backups …
I know it is just moving, but it’s my thing now, boxes, shit, stuff, stuff as shit, shit as stuff, lift (mind your back), place eventually, promise some friends and nephews pizza and soda’s to help, the ones that can be bought with such, charity downsize, stop, put lift down, you got this, but this too soon as they are always too soon a move has been weighing on me.
I said to my exe’s son years ago when my Benny had found his other place, no, not in some rainbow’s bridge journey nonsense but just found his end game after a wondrous lifetime of stuffed mice and laps and balls with bells and bells with balls and neighbor’s front yards and flower patches “Do you know how many physical places Benny and I have lived in in his 16 years?”
“No”
“15, and that’s including the years here with you and your Mom”
It was nomadic and a nomadic I had become accustomed to but then the years in temp spots started to build, five years with my Sis and my Brother, eight years with the ex in two places, though the last couple might as well have been a moving away, just to an upstairs in what would become Frankenberry’s Attic, then three years escape to a wonderful little two bedroom spot with new friends who had dogs and cats to give me paws up on my come homes and two humans who even helped save my life from emergency discovered deficiency things once (always grateful Bren & Bob, always) then to six years in this hardwood tall ceilinged spot, but still never quite roots, this latest of cats and dogs and even birds though was a whole new experience, one I will dearly miss.
Morning open door: Hello new puppy!
Morning open door: Hello new puppy! You have a friend now?!
Morning open door: Hello new puppy! You have multiple friends now?!
Morning open door: Hello new kitten (Dex), whoa stop there needle teeth, that shit hurts!
Morning open door: Hello Georgia (shaky butt), Hello Pea, Hello Ms Chrissy (can I get a kiss?), Hello Polly, how’s the leg? Hello Louie you loud freakin’ bastard you, bring it down my friend, yes, that is the coolest of pineapple chew toys, no, I know you don’t really want to give it to me, just present it.
Morning open door: Hello Mabel, how’s about’s you and I dance? (if only I could dog)
Morning open door: Hello “Boo”, Ms Honey Bob Tail, Hello Florida, hello Handsome, hello Trucker, hello Millie, hello Loki, you’re quite a dick you know, hello Penny, hello Lola (slap ‘em away Lola, it’s just you and me girlfriend) hello Chubs and your little prairie dog stand ups at the crack of a cat food can …
Morning open door: Hello Dolly with a song in my heart, Hello Bruce, did you fuck with Pea yet today, Hello to the young brother and sister combo, Phat Tail and Squeaks whose front legs run straight at you his while his back move about all willy nilly as if on a swivel.
Morning open door: Hello Bella, you can’t fly but you can walk in a Groucho Marx kind of arm’s length way up to a shoulder and have me worried of nibble ears
Morning open door: Speaking of birds Hello Rico and Birdy Ray, yes, my shoulder is good for a landing and my beard could use a bit of grooming. Thank you
Morning open door: Hello Tank, you were given short shrift, literally with your tiny block kit, from whoever builds cats but you were a trooper
Morning open door: Hello Blue on my driveway up, day one, you big chested soft hearted scary monster you
Morning open door: Hello Cricket, how’s bout’s you and I bond and what of your friend Mimi? Yeah, you too old lady. Bella won’t be happy though.
Morning open door: Hello Blink, I’ve so missed you.
Morning open door: Hello Cujo, no you can’t bite me today.
Morning open door: Hello BW and Ghost and Curly and Lumpy, no, won’t make any attempts at pets (well not you Lumpy, bellies all around) not your thing, understood, but here is your water, drink your water.
Morning open door: Hello Diesel, yes you have the coolest name for a Pug ever! Hello Benny, Oh I see your nose poking out of that blanket you have wrapped yourself in like a small doggie burrito in your comfy bed, no, don’t get up, you’re good little man.
Morning open door: Hello Spud you handsome orange bugger, like my dearest Shoes, hello Bunny of the bent ear, hello Sunny of an equal bend hello … shit … just a lot of hello’s.
Morning open door: and close.
This is not like any other move of mine, it belies just the simple shit you can be Ok without in the paring down of things as moves should do but there are names, were names, memories and currents that are so difficult to part with.
That is hard this time around and as this this isn’t old days of new days either where you looked to new horizons, some promise, but I will find some anticipation still, no matter it being lesser than it was, age is age, time is time, and time has a habit of being just that, fucker, and windows become smaller, like by a lot, but, still, I will find something.
I have been part of a radio show for going on 12 years now and the guests of this show are all self help gurus and life coaches as that’s a thing that exists, charlatans all, a thing, and they would all probably tell me the same … just envision where you want to be, who you want to be, envision your best self and let it materialize In front of you like magic.
Well, I’m old now and that “magic” though well intentioned in pretty, sometimes even clinical scientific sounding ways is just that … “magic”
Just move forward Steve, that’s it, just move forward, stay above ground, plus you still have the “stuff” of memories of opened doors and … you also still have a lot of shit that ain’t hit a box yet
I am stressed
I am upended
I am uncomfortable, my underwear doesn’t even feel quite right …
Son of a bitch